Brandon it has been 19 months today since you left and it still is so fresh in my heart. I  have never loved anyone as I loved you, you were just so different than the rest of the kids.Maybe somewhere in my heart I knew that you were going to leave me. Will this pain ever go away, will we feel whole again. Mommy and Daddy miss you so much and they are having a new baby in March.Keep your eyes on mommy and take care of her. I love you with all my heart.

Your Grandma,

Joetta

Dear Mrs. Kirk,

We don't know each other, but when I was sent this by e-mail, I was compelled to visit Brandon's web site.  What a beautiful family and what a beautiful little boy.  I just wanted to tell you how sorry I am for you and your family.  I just can't imagine what this does to you.

I am a grandmother of a 15 yr old boy and 19 mo old twin girls, Jordan, Jennifer and Jessica.  I would not be able to go on if something should ever happen to any of them.

Four days after the girls were born, my daughter had an aortic disection.  It was her 37th birthday.  Thank God it dissected down instead of up or she would be gone.  As it is, she lost a kidney and has to be checked out often for enlargement of the aorta and has to keep her blood pressure in check, something she has never had a problem with.

For the first month of their lives, I had to take care of them.  I slept on the sofa and they slept in their Boppys' on the large coffee table beside me.  Needless to say, I didn't sleep much but I would do it all over again if I had to.  Sids is a very devastating and unexplained thing.  I worried so often about it when the girls were tiny.

  I just wanted to let you know that even strangers care and I am one of them.  You little boy is absolutely beautiful and you will be with him again one day.

Thank you for letting us know your story.

God Bless you and your family.

Phyllis Ganoe

Charlottesville, Va 

my little angel,when GOD took you he didn't do it to hurt us again, he knew adam needed you to carry around like he did all the family babies,adam will take good care of you . for us.just give adam lots of love and kisses for gigi, love you both very much  your gigi /adams grammy

I just wanted to say ...............I don't know what to say really

What words are there to express the loss....only that as a Grandma myself I cannot imagine the pain your family are going through on a daily basis.

The angels will take care of you now forever:)

I will  light a candle for you now ...God Bless

All my love & hugs to you "little one"

Candy

xxxxx